That’s why I’m single I believe in being 100 in a relationship I don’t do that 50/50 crap. If I can’t have all of you I surely will not settle for half. I take relationships serious with the potential to marry. I don’t do the live in (shacking) anymore. I’ve learned better so I do better. That is not how God wants that. God comes first in my life then me. I love me some me. Then my child ( she’s grown but she will always be there) then a man ( they come and go). So yes I agree with you on this blog. People do not take relationships serious anymore.