What makes your mate cheat?

I think people have various reasons that they give themselves to cheat.

In my opinion, if you love a person enough to marry them you should love them enough to work out any problem that you all may be having together. A lot of people get married for the wrong reason and it doesn’t have anything to do with love, respect, honor, understanding, peace, happiness, oh and last but not least Christ. Therefore plenty marriages are built on sex, money, envy, and selfishness in today’s society. Those relationships are not built on a strong Godly foundation where you are suppose to love, honor and obey one another. A lot of couples today are comfortable with their situations as they are and alot are afraid to be alone. They allow themselves to be in an unhappy situation, giving up on themselves, thinking this is it, this is how it has to be, and/or this is how it’s going to be…so I may as well deal with it. Until people find Christ and make him the head of their marriage and their life, the devil will continue to use them for his deeds. People say that they were unhappy and that’s why they did it, but they could have just as well given their spouse an ultimatum. Some people say it’s because their spouse cheated, but couldn’t they just as well have gotten a divorce if they weren’t willing to forgive them totally?

I feel that if it’s in a person to cheat that’s what they are going to do. Some people be the one that the other is cheating with. Then when that person’s spouse leaves them they have the nerve to marry them. My question is weren’t they cheating with you? People don’t think enough and most don’t think at all. We have a lot of Godless people and relationships in this world, and until people learn to love themselves they will never know how to love someone else.

That’s just my opinion!!

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This blog will bring you a lot of insight on reasons people cheat and I look forward to hearing your opinion on the issues we discuss.

~Roe